I am delighted to announce that I have achieved a First Class with Distinction, 90% on my original dissertation and a ranking of 2nd for the entire Psychological and Behavioural Science cohort. I am also ecstatic to have been awarded three academic prizes: 1) Cambridge University Press – Academic Prize for Best Dissertation Project 2) Department of Psychology Prize 3) Head of Psychology Department Commendation for Achieving All Firsts in Examinations “For with God, nothing shall be impossible” (Luke 1:37).
I did it! As a Black Caribbean boy and young carer from Enfield, I graduated from the University of Cambridge made history, broke down barriers and made a statement while doing it. This is for the young boy that was told he would fail his exams and not amount to anything in Secondary School. This is for the teen that was told no one of his ‘caliber’ would ever get into Cambridge by the principal of his Sixth Form College. This is for the man that was told by many that he only got into Cambridge as a ‘token’ to meet a diversity quota.
To anybody who has ever been marginalised or made to feel less than.....Keep going. Never listen to anyone who wishes to belittle your dreams. Never let anyone tell you what you can and cannot do. Finally, to all my young black brothers and sisters who are striving for success in a society built and cemented with oppression and racism.
Change is occurring slowly but surely and it’s up to us to continue the legacies and excellence our ancestors have left. As Henry Louis Gates Jr said in a recent Cambridge lecture “Education is what gives us a voice to fight oppression.” This is only the beginning. Watch this space. #education #success #change #cambridgeuniversity #graduation2022
Congratulations to Westminster City School's Sixth Form students, Tsepo and Isabelle who are winners of the Polar Capital Aspire Scheme Bursaries.
Each PCAS bursary covers full university tuition fees and provides a monthly stipend of up to £1,000 for living expenses. Additionally, the runners up, Emma and Sawad, will both receive bursaries that covers their full university tuition fees.
On Wednesday 11 May, four students in Year 12 at Westminster City School’s Sixth Form attended a morning of interviews as part of the selection process for the Polar Capital Aspire Scheme (PCAS), which has resulted in two students gaining a full scholarship for university and the runners up receiving funding toward their education.
As part of the application process, students had to initially express their interest in the scheme to teachers, then shortlisted candidates had to write an essay that explained their thinking beyond their choices for university.
Year 12 student, Isabelle, who is one of two winners said that she felt incredibly proud to have made the shortlist of four, due to the competitiveness. Isabelle explained why she was inclined to apply for the bursary scheme saying:
“I am determined to succeed as a woman in STEM and this amazing opportunity was one that really excited me. My immediate plan is to secure strong A Level grades and successfully apply to Bath University for the Aerospace Engineering degree. I believe that in 5 years’ time I will start my first day at Space X engineering, in Hawthorne California. I will be looking forward, as a Space X graduate employee, to working on programs and projects with the potential to notably impact our lives on Earth and beyond the stars.”
Tsepo, who is also a winner of the PCAS bursary added:
“Ever since the age of 13, I was very interested in business and pursuing my entrepreneurial skills. After sitting through the assembly that Su Park presented, I knew that Polar Capital would help me to develop my business and entrepreneurial skills further. Learning that they oversee £22.1 billion as of the 31 March 2022 in assets, I was very intrigued into the process of holding investors’ money into different stocks. When I was told that I was selected to be shortlisted for an interview, I was absolutely elated.”
By Kathy Pennell
This recent West Point graduate is Alex Idrache. He grew up in a slum in Haiti, and he tells the story of how U.S. soldiers were deployed to his neighborhood following the earthquake there several years ago. He says their presence was the first experience of "hope" he recalls in his childhood. He remembers looking at his dad and asking him who the people were that were helping. His dad looked at him and said, "They are American soldiers." He looked back at his father and said, "One day, I will be an American soldier." His father knew the situation in Haiti was unworkable and tried for several years to obtain a visa to come to the United States.
After being denied for several years, he was finally granted a spot in Baltimore. He purchased a ticket on a boat for his family and left Haiti. They arrived and Alex, remembering his dream in the slum several years prior, looked for a way to join the U.S. Army. He found a national guard program that allowed him to join the Army in exchange for citizenship. He didn't hesitate. After a series of fortunate occurrences, he was given one of the few spots at West Point for prior enlisted soldiers. Despite his severe lack of formal education, he graduated as an honor graduate (top 5% physically and academically) and the top student in the Physics Department. This picture was taken just prior to tossing his hat in the air, the realization of a dream that began 10 years ago in a slum in Port-au-Prince.
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Photo of a man at the DMV holding a baby. The man does not know the child. They are strangers to each other. The parents of the child were sitting next to the man, and the baby, feeling squirmy and discontent, crawled into the man's lap.
The man had just moved from one state to another, where a year prior his brother was killed. This baby was born on that very day. Everyone was overwhelmed to tears.
"Why would I want ten Ferraris, 20 diamond watches and two jet planes? I starved, I worked in the fields, played barefoot, and I didn't go to school. Now I can help people. I prefer to build schools and give poor people food or clothing. I have built schools and a stadium; provide clothes, shoes, and food for people in extreme poverty. In addition, I give 70 euros per month to all people from a very poor Senegalese region in order to contribute to their family economy. I do not need to display luxury cars, luxury homes, trips, and even planes. I prefer that my people receive some of what life has given me."
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The ObserverPsychology - Donna Ferguson -Sun 13 Mar 2022 10.00 GMT
As science proves that acts of kindness benefit both giver and receiver, we ask why some people are so much better at putting others first.
Guinea-Bissau's Braima Suncar Dabo helps Aruba's Jonathan Busby to the finish line during the men's 5,000m heats at the 2019 IAAF World Athletics Championships in Doha. Photograph: Kirill Kudryavtsev/AFP/Getty Images.
It was freezing cold the day Neil Laybourn saw a man in a T-shirt sitting on a high ledge on Waterloo Bridge and made a split-second decision that would change both their lives for ever. “It’s hard to pin down what it was that made me stop… but it would have played on my mind if I hadn’t,” he said. “That’s not how you live your life is it? You don’t just walk past when you see someone in need.”
On that January morning in London’s rush hour, hundreds of other people were doing exactly that. But Laybourn didn’t and – it turned out the man, Jonny Benjamin, was contemplating suicide. Six years later he would launch a campaign to find and thank Laybourn for persuading him down off that ledge. The two of them now give talks on mental health issues and suicide prevention together.
Looking back now on that day, Laybourn says: “It’s made me much more aware of how important it is to put the amount of kindness you have in you, out into the world.”
But what is it, exactly, that makes us kind? Why are some of us kinder than others – and what stops us from being kinder?
The Kindness Test, a major new study involving more than 60,000 people from 144 different countries, has been looking into these and other questions. Launched on BBC Radio 4 and devised by the University of Sussex, it is believed to be the largest public study of kindness ever carried out in the world.
The results, which are currently the subject of a three-part Radio 4 documentary The Anatomy of Kindness, suggest that people who receive, give or even just notice more acts of kindness tend to experience higher levels of wellbeing and life satisfaction.
Other encouraging findings are that as many as two-thirds of people think the pandemic has made people kinder and nearly 60% of participants in the study claimed to have received an act of kindness in the previous 24 hours.
“It is a big part of human nature, to be kind – because it’s such a big part of how we connect with people and how we have relationships,” says Claudia Hammond, visiting professor of the public understanding of psychology at the University of Sussex and presenter of the documentary. “It’s a win-win situation, because we like receiving kindness, but we also like being kind.”
Our desire to be kind is actually quite selfish, on one level, she explains. Because we have evolved to have empathy, we have all sorts of “ulterior motives” for being kind – the chief one being that it makes us feel good. “We know from brain research, there is a warm fuzzy feeling that people feel straight away. But also, it gives you the sense that you are a kind person who cares about other people. And we want to be good, we want to feel good about ourselves and what we are like.”
Your religious beliefs and your values system also help to determine how kind you are, the study shows. “We found those who believed benevolence was important were more likely to give than those who believed power and achievement were more important.”
People who have been told they should be kind are naturally more likely to notice opportunities to be kind: “They have expectations, which might be the expectations of their religious teachings or it might be the expectations of those around them,” Hammond says.
This may be one of the reasons why women who filled in the study’s online questionnaire were more likely to report being kind, receiving kindness and seeing kindness. Women may feel that they ought to report performing acts of kindness, because caring for people and comforting them is traditionally seen as a more “feminine” activity, she says.
For this reason, Hammond is concerned about the use of the hashtag #BeKind on social media. “It’s sometimes used to shut women down from talking, to suggest they can’t hold an opinion, because they’ve got to ‘be kind’. And obviously we want social media to be a kinder place. But if kindness then gets weaponised and used to stop people talking, then I think that’s a worry.”
While boys wear slogans like ‘born to win’, messages like ‘be kind’ and ‘kindness always wins’ litter young girls’ clothing . Hammond questions how much girls are stereotypically being taught, at a young age, to be caring – and whether that puts an unequal amount of pressure on girls to be kind as they grow up. “What I would hope is that boys are being taught to be nurturing too.”
Overall, the study suggests the greatest predictor of how kind you are to others – and how kind they are to you – is not your gender, but your personality. People who scored high on extraversion, openness to new experiences and agreeableness self-reported giving and receiving more kindness, as did people who talk to strangers.
The reason for this may simply be that these people have more confidence to be kind, Hammond says. The most common barrier to kindness reported by British people in the study was a fear that their behaviour would be misinterpreted. “You need confidence to be able to offer kindness and to face the possibility that your offer of kindness may be rejected. And people may be happier to do that, and talk to strangers, if they are extroverted.”
To get over this fear of misinterpretation, Hammond recommends you remind yourself how amazing it can feel to receive an act of kindness. “When we asked people how they felt, they said warm and happy and grateful and loved and pleased.”
Luke Cameron, dubbed the “nicest man in Britain”, once spent a year doing a good deed every day to raise money for 45 different charities. It taught him that sometimes offering some help, reassurance or a kind word can make a huge difference to strangers. “It’s made me more aware of things that happen in front of me. If someone falls over in the street, there’s always going to be people who go and help and others who stand back. It’s made me one of those people who go and help. Consciously, I now just do it.”
He became that person, he says, after a “mindset shift” where he realised: “Actually, if it was me, I’d want somebody to help me. That makes you think differently about how you are with people.”
Like Laybourn and Hammond, Cameron says that you have a choice when you interact with people – and the more you try to find opportunities to be kind, the easier it gets. “It was actually the small things that I found were the most impactful,” he says.
For example, he once bought coffee for a woman who looked sad in a Costa Coffee shop and invited her to sit with him. She thanked him, saying no one had been kind to her like that in a while, and then poured her heart out to him about her friend, who was really struggling with cancer.
As she left, he realised she was wearing a wig and her eyebrows had been drawn on. “It dawned on me, she was the one going through cancer and she needed somebody to talk to about what she was going through. So she spoke to a complete stranger.” He will never forget their conversation and its impact on him. “That will always stay with me.”
Talking to strangers makes us feel more connected with each other, says Hammond: “People often think that conversations with strangers are quick and shallow and saying hello to someone in a shop doesn’t really matter. But actually it does. All of these things are received kindly by other people because they connect us. And connection is everything.”